So you screwed up and you want to know how to apologize to your girlfriend over text since you can’t say it to her face. You’ll find that it’s not that hard to say “sorry” and fix things! Words mixed with emotions are very powerful and the ability to say them well must be in you. If you don’t have the ability, I will help you fix it.
What it takes to apologize to a girl
It takes maturity to apologize to a girl that you like and even the one you don’t like. So, you have a problem with your girlfriend and you don’t how to apologize to her because you believe you don’t know how to say it to her. It takes a lot of maturities to apologize to a lady and it will only happen when you swallow your pride and you value the relationship more than the problem.
You have to look beyond your pride and the problem to really apologize to your girlfriend. Pride is one of the reasons why you can’t actually apologize to your girlfriend even if you truel love her. So, big man, learn how to swallow your pride and apologize to your girlfriend when you offend her.
How to apologize to your girlfriend over text If you’ve betrayed her badly
You have messed up this time and then you are sure that you won’t get her back at this point but you have to think of a way to get her back because she hasn’t thrown you out yet. At this point, you need to know what to say and how to say it if you really want to apologize and be forgiven. Betrayal is a wicked thing and a heartbreaking thing to do especially to the one you love.
Start your apology text by saying you don’t deserve her first because this will make her feel important and this is one of the desires of every human on earth.
Send her a text like this; I don’t know how I could do this to you, and I know I’ll never truly be able to make up for it. I’m not asking for forgiveness. I’m just telling you that I understand the gravity of what I did. I’m so sorry. This will make her know that you really mean what you’re saying and you actually love her.
Betrayal isn’t an event we see every day but I bet you it is a very painful one when you experience it. Love makes you connect deeply with someone and when that person leaves, it’s like taking a part of you that can never be restored.
How to apologize to your girlfriend over text for a small argument?
It is better for you to put out the fire when it is still controllable than trying to put out a volcano. When you have a little misunderstanding with your girlfriend, don’t hesitate to apologize even when she’s at fault. Women are emotional beings and they think with their emotions also.
When you have a little misunderstanding with your girlfriend and you don’t settle it at that very moment, you will be surprised the next you have another issue. The old things will be brought to light and everything joined together will create a serious emotional breakdown for both of you.
The point is when you have any misunderstanding be the first to call or text to apologize without blaming it on her. Because she won’t want to be portrayed as the troublemaker. Swallow your ego even when you’re right. Cherish the relationship more than the problem.
How to apologize to a girl?
When you have made up your mind to apologize to a girl, be ready for anything that comes. Ladies have a way of making things look bigger than they already are. If you want to apologize to a girl follow these simple steps.
- Make the decision to apologize
If you haven’t made up your mind to apologize to a girl then you may be pissed by what she might say. - Don’t make the impression that you’re always right
I am sure you won’t like someone always proving to you that you are wrong no matter how right and sincere you are. The same thing happens each time you try to make her feel you are always right. - Love her more than the problem
Make her the big deal in your apology and see what happens next. When you make the problem more important than her and your relationship, your relationship is over. - Suggest the solution and make her like whatever your opinions are.
- Accept the blame if she throws it at you.
Best quotes to say sorry in a text message
Here are some examples to use.
- Hello darling. I thought I would break this stalemate and apologize for criticizing how you do the dishes. I can tell you’re irritated. I really meant it lightheartedly but I can understand why you took offense. I’m sorry.
- Hey, I’m really sorry for the comment I made about your mother last night. I said it in the heat of the moment, and you know I don’t really think that. It was unacceptable behavior.
- I haven’t heard from you today, which means you’re upset about what I said yesterday. I’m sorry about that, I never meant to hurt your feelings. Can we meet up to talk things through?
- I’m sorry. It’s going to kill me for the rest of my life that I did this to you, whether or not we stay together. I want nothing more than to go back to how things were before. I’ll give you space, but if you want to talk
- I’m sorry you were hurt by what I did last week. I never meant it to happen, things just got out of hand. Will you ever forgive me?
- I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings yesterday. I’m sorry for what I said. Let me take you out to dinner and make it up to you.
Apologizing to your girl over text
You have to add your emotions to the words you say to her when apologizing to your girlfriend. Women are emotional beings and they will remain that way till the end of the world. Words create positive and negative atmospheres. So, be very careful with the words you say to people, especially ladies.
If you don’t know what to say to your girlfriend over text, you can use some of the examples above and see the effect. You can also get this HANDBOOK that teaches you how to talk your way into a lady’s heart.
Apologize immediately
One of the secrets of apology is that you don’t have to wait till the next time you see the person you offend to apologize because you may not be able to swallow your pride and say sorry, which makes the apology harder. The longer you wait to say sorry the more reasons your head gives you not to say sorry. Don’t wait for the right time to say sorry because you may never have it. Apologize immediately after you realize your mistake.
Saying sorry even when you’re not at fault can be ego stinging but it is worth it after a long run. Using this virtue in your relationship will make you enjoy your relationship and have a long-lasting relationship. [HOW TO HAVE A LONG-LASTING RELATIONSHIP]
Now that you know the right time to say sorry when you offend or betray your girlfriend, let’s talk about the real part of a man that’s included in apologies. Please read on!
Forget about your pride
Pride is one of the destroyers of relationships on every level. Pride is not good but sometimes it can make you do something that will enhance your way of living. When you have something to protect, you will do everything in your power to protect it.
When you have a fight with your girlfriend and you know she’s someone worth fighting for, your pride won’t allow you to see someone else take care of her better than you do. YOu have to use the good side of your pride in your relationship and not scatter your relationship.
Humans are not perfect and by this, we are prone to mistakes. You can annoy someone and then people will offend you. When you have so much pride that you can’t see the need to apologize to your girlfriend when you offend her, you will lose her and may not even have another girlfriend until you work on your pride. [HOW TO HANDLE PRIDE IN A RELATIONSHIP]
Men are proud we know, but it shouldn’t blind you and make you a fool. Pride comes by reason of your achievement and status in life but when it gets to love, you need to put that aside.
Acknowledge that you did something wrong
Knowledge is powerful but not as powerful as its application of it. When you offend your girlfriend and you acknowledge the fact that you did, you will be on your way to solving the problem. We have talked about the trait in men that can cause them not to apologize to people and ladies especially. You can read about pride above.
One of the things ladies hate is denial. Be it the denial of attention, truth, offense, and love, they are the same feeling but the highest is the denial of truth and offense. When you deny the truth even when it is visible, it is very heartbreaking. So when you offend your girlfriend, acknowledge the fact that you’re wrong and ask for forgiveness.
Don’t play games when you know that she knows the truth about what you did. Don’t hide the truth from your girlfriend because it will bridge your trust and this is one of the basic foundations of any relationship. [HOW TO GET A HOT GIRLFRIEND]
Ask for her forgiveness
Asking for forgiveness after you offend her is not a sign of weakness. You have to ask for forgiveness if you offend your girlfriend and you can ask for forgiveness through text. There are some texts you can use to ask for forgiveness if you offend your girlfriend.
Examples of the text you can send to your girlfriend.
- I’m sorry, I feel like the worst person ever. I never meant to make you feel like I don’t love you. Can we talk about it in person?
- I’m sorry you were hurt by what I did last week. I never meant it to happen, things just got out of hand. Will you ever forgive me?
- I haven’t heard from you today, which means you’re upset about what I said yesterday. I’m sorry about that, I never meant to hurt your feelings. Can we meet up to talk things through?
- I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings yesterday. I’m sorry for what I said. Let me take you out to dinner and make it up to you.
- You’re everything to me. I’m sorry. Can you forgive me for hurting you?
Words like these are filled with emotions and they will break her defense and allow you to come into her heart again. Don’t think they work because it doesn’t sound right to you. Put this knowledge into practice and see.
Make her something special
If you’re the kind of guy that’s stuck with the words to say, try to make her something special that she likes. Put up a surprise party or take her out to her favorite spot and apologize to her there. Don’t think that because you took her out she will forgive you automatically. It will only make her less annoyed and put her in a position where she can easily forgive and forget what you have said and done to her in the past.
There are things you can buy for her to make her feel special. I know girls like bags, shoes, and clothes but do something out of the box, and that will make her feel special. It doesn’t have to be a jet or car (if you have the money to buy that then why not) just something that has meaning connected to it.
Tell her that you won’t do it again
Saying you are sorry won’t solve all the problems you have to promise you won’t do it again and keep that promise. Hurting your girlfriend every time and telling her sorry after repeating the process will cause a fast breakup because she can’t trust you with her heart anymore. The first thing a lady will look for in a relationship is not just love but security. Have that at the front of your mind.
If you take that away from her, she will look elsewhere and leave you for good. Make sure every lady that comes around you have this belief that they are secure whenever they are with you. Be it emotional, mental, or physical security.
Don’t be a big-boned fool whenever ladies come around you. You won’t get a girl to marry you. Be a fortress to every lady that comes into your life not just your girlfriend or wife, including your mom and sister. This character is not sent through text but by action.
You will add this to your character bank and make her understand that she will be safe in your arms. You can text your sorry messages to her but you have to be there physically to let her know you have her back.
Answer all her questions
After you have sent your apology text to her, now it’s time to answer all her questions. Don’t skip this part because it will help her understand the kind of person you are. Maybe what she took as an offense was not something you did intentionally and the only she can understand better is by telling her what your motive behind certain things you say and do.
You will be surprised what this will do to your relationship when you open up to your girlfriend by answering all her questions after an argument that you had.
Don’t try to play with her by answering her questions with questions you will only make it worse and make her look like a fool. She will leave you instantly without looking back. Be a smart guy and answer her questions because you’re not the only one that will benefit from the honesty. lying to a girl only makes you a fool and not a sharp guy.
Ask her what you can do to make it better
After you have answered all her questions, ask her how you can make your relationship better. You should expect an answer after asking this question because it will open you up to a new dimension in your relationship that you don’t exist before.
It may be fantasy but try to do it and make her happy again because you broke her heart already. [HOW TO HAVE A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WHEN IT IS BAD]
You should have it at the back of your mind that she will bring something that has to do with a relationship she saw on TV and would love to experience it. Just play along even when you know it is not going to work.
You can also seek counsel from authorities or your parents about how to make your relationship a better one. Don’t seek counsel from people who don’t have a record of a successful relationship. It will only make things worst for you. And know that you’re the only one who knows what makes you happy. Ask her what she likes and dislikes so you will avoid them and strengthen you’re relationship and love.
Conclusion
You can apologize to your girlfriend through text if you follow the steps mentioned above and put your pride aside. If you think there is something not included or you have a contribution to make, please put it in the comment box because it can help someone in need.
